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187: Whitney Johnson: It’s not that I turned it around

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Whitney Johnson was a star analyst working on Wall Street and she had a fantastic year, except when she got the feedback from all her peers. It was really bad. So, she got a coach and turned it around. And after 15-years she’s still learning lessons from that experience while helping others to avoid the same mistakes.

Whitney was born in Madrid, Spain and raised in San Jose, California.; along with her younger sister and two younger brothers. Her parents married initially because her mother was pregnant and they then divorced when she was a senior in high school.

Because her mother got married young, as the oldest child, Whitney’s job was to help make her mother happy, so achievement – winning the brass ring – became very important. Whitney studied music in high school and graduated from college with a degree in piano performance, but after graduating and moving to NYC with her husband so he could attend graduate school at Columbia, she became the primary breadwinner. And since she needed to put food on the table the brass ring was Wall Street. She started out as a secretary, took classes at night and became an investment banker.

After being a banker and then equity analyst, she disrupted herself to become an entrepreneur – eventually co-founding an investment firm with Clayton Christensen at Harvard Business School. While working with him in investing in early stage companies, she had the a-ha that the theory of disruption wasn’t just about products, but about people. From there, she began to research and codify a process of personal disruption she writes about in Disrupt Yourself and Build an A-Team. She also coaches and teaches these principles all over the world.

She hopes through this work to help people be less terrified to make the changes they need to make in their life and give them a structure to lean on as they make those changes.

Whitney currently lives in Lexington, Virginia where her husband teaches biology at Southern Virginia University. They have two children; a son, David, who recently returned from a mission in Campinas, Brazil and is now a sophomore at Utah State, and a daughter, Miranda, who is a junior in high school and whose passion is academic team.

Tweetable Quotes and Mentions

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“If you can be a great boss you can build a great team.” -Whitney Johnson Click to Tweet  

“When people stop learning they start to feel disengaged.” -Whitney Johnson Click to Tweet 

“Board and disengage people don’t innovate, they get disrupted.” -Whitney Johnson Click to Tweet 

“When you’ve gotten to the top of a learning curve and it’s time for you to do something new, how do you know when it’s time to do that?” -Whitney Johnson Click to Tweet 

“We need friction, we need challenges.” -Whitney Johnson Click to Tweet 

“We tend to ignore people and things when they’re working.” -Whitney Johnson Click to Tweet 

“It’s not just pile more on, it’s making choices in order to optimize the learning of every person on your team.” -Whitney Johnson Click to Tweet 

“We all need visual reminders or at least check-ins.” -Whitney Johnson Click to Tweet 

“That whole challenge of buy-in, we talk about it all the time and most of us are really bad at it.” -Whitney Johnson Click to Tweet 

“If we’re not feeling that sense of self where we can give to others, then we’ve got to figure out what’s happening for us, so that we can do it for others.” -Whitney Johnson Click to Tweet 

“If you can’t get buy-in from your stakeholders you’re not going to get a whole lot done.” -Whitney Johnson Click to Tweet 

“We’re all entitled, it’s just a matter of how.” -Whitney Johnson Click to Tweet 

“Anytime we look at one of our big failures, in that failure are the seeds of some great successes.” -Whitney Johnson Click to Tweet 

“When every single person on your team is a learning machine” -Whitney Johnson Click to Tweet 

“The fundamental unit of disruption is the individual.” -Whitney Johnson Click to Tweet 

“Companies don’t disrupt, people do.” -Whitney Johnson Click to Tweet 

“If I can disrupt the current version of me, I can change my world and the rest of the world just a little bit.” -Whitney Johnson Click to Tweet 

“Get a coach now, don’t wait until there’s a problem.” -Whitney Johnson Click to Tweet 

“Everything is a head game, if you can change how you think and feel – that’s going to make all the difference.” -Whitney Johnson Click to Tweet 

Hump to Get Over

Whitney Johnson was a star analyst working on Wall Street and she had a fantastic year, except when she got the feedback from all her peers. It was really bad. So, she got a coach and turned it around. And after 15-years she’s still learning lessons from that experience while helping others to avoid the same mistakes.

Advice for others

Get a coach now, now, now, now. Everybody needs a coach. Recognize that everything is a head game – if you can change how you think and feel and not just consume information but really change your habits and hard-wiring, that going to make all the difference.

Holding her back from being an even better leader

How I think about myself, what I think about myself.

Best Leadership Advice

Do not dare not to dare. I pass the test. Trust the process.

Secret to Success

I’m hungry – I want to improve.

Best tools in business or life

I work with a great group of people and the Headspace App.

Recommended Reading

Build an A-Team: Play to Their Strengths and Lead Them Up the Learning Curve

Disrupt Yourself: Putting the Power of Disruptive Innovation to Work

Grit: The Power of Passion and Perseverance

You Were Born Rich

Contacting Whitney Johnson

website: https://whitneyjohnson.com/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/whitneyjohnson/

Twitter: https://twitter.com/johnsonwhitney

Resources and Show Mentions

Disruption Diagnostic

Free Chapter of Build An A Team

Call Center Coach

An Even Better Place to Work

 

Show Transcript: 

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187: Whitney Johnson: It’s not that I turned it around

 

Intro: Welcome to the Fast Leader Podcast, where we uncover the leadership like hat that help you to experience, break out performance faster and rocket to success. And now here’s your host, customer and employee engagement expert and certified emotional intelligence practitioner, Jim Rembach.

 

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Jim Rembach:   , Fast Leader legion, today I’m excited because I have somebody on the show today who’s going really show us some frameworks and ideas on how to build and A-Team. Whitney Johnson was born in Madrid, Spain and raised in San Jose, California along with her younger sister and two younger brothers. Her parents married initially because her mother was pregnant and they then divorced when she was a senior in high school. Because her mother got married young, as the oldest child, Whitney’s job was to help make her mother happy, so achievement winning the brass ring became very important. 

 

Whitney Johnson:   studies music in high school and graduated from college with a degree in piano performance. But after graduating and moving to New York City with her husband so he could attend graduate school Columbia she became the primary breadwinner and since she needed to put food on the table the brass ring was Wall Street. She started out as a secretary to classes night and became an investment banker. After being banker and then equity analyst she disrupted herself to become an entrepreneur eventually co-founding an investment firm with Clayton Christensen at Harvard business school. While working with him in investing in early stage companies, she had an “aha” that the theory of disruption wasn’t just about products but about people. From there she begin to research and codify a process of personal disruption she writes about in Disrupt Yourself and Build an A-team. She also coaches and teaches this principles all over the world. She hopes through this work to help people be less terrified to make the changes they need to make in their life and give them a structure to learn on as they make those changes. Whitney currently lives in Lexington, Virginia, where her husband teaches biology at Southern Virginia University. They have two children, a son David, who recently returned from a mission in Campinas, Brazil and is now a sophomore at Utah State. And a daughter Miranda, who is a junior in high school who’s passion is academic team. Whitney Johnson, are you ready to help us get over the hump?

 

Whitney Johnson:   Yes, I am. 

 

Jim Rembach:   I’m glad you’re here. I’ve really enjoyed going through your book, Build an A-Team and we’re going to get to talk about some of those things. But before we get in to that, I’ve given my legion a little bit about you but can you tell us what your current passion is so that we can get to know you even better?

 

Whitney Johnson:   Yeah, what you alluded to just a moment ago, my passion is to really help you become a great boss to build a team, an A Team that can innovate and manage through change that is what I am focused on passionate about, who will talk to anybody who will listen on the topic. Because I think if you could be a great boss, you can build a great team. 

 

Jim Rembach:   And as I was going through the book there’s several things that just stood out to me. And one early on was the statistic that you reported that one study showed that 84 percent of people felt trapped in their jobs. To me that’s just astounding and when you start thinking about the whole how much does this trap feeling and engagement kind of play in to one another? 

 

Whitney Johnson:   Another statistic is that only 30 percent of the people are engage on the job—that’s the United States and then 15 percent outside of the United States. I think what happens is that when people stop learning they start to fee disengaged and when they feel disengaged they feel like, well, I’m really unhappy but I don’t know if I can actually leave because I got to put on the table and so that’s where the trap feeling comes in. And what the purpose of this book is to say to you as a manager if you will let your people learn, if you allow for the fact that they are learning machines allow for this biology of change they will start to re-engage they will stop feeling trap and instead of trying to be like a caged animal getting out of the trap they’ll be like, this is fantastic and work real hard and happy and then productive because they’re happy.

 

Jim Rembach:   And the way that you kind of, I guess it’s a brought this to life formatted for me visually clear, you did it in a couple different ways, but one way is you talked about S-curve of learning. And with the S-curve of learning—okay, so let me talk about first of all the categories within it in (4:53) you have an experience, engagement and then you have mastery and so for the longest time I hear about getting to mastery trying to get your people and help them to become a master at something. However, the thing that stood out to me is you talk about the downside of mastery, what is that?

 

Whitney Johnson:   Exactly. Just a really quick recap of this idea the S-curve for everybody who’s listening. So, really in your mind pick though this S it looks a lot like a wave, whenever you start a new role or new project you’re a the bottom of that S and you’re working really hard and it feels like not much has happening. You’re inexperience and you might come home from work feeling like, I don’t know what I’m doing what did I take this job? We’ll that completely normal cause there’s this jumble of puzzle pieces that you’re trying to put together and that is going to last for six months maybe a year. But then you working hard and then you move into that phase of engagement and you’re typically there for one to three years, this is the sweet spot it’s a steep pack of the curve and this is where you’re learning you know enough but not too much and so it’s a really fun part of the job and that’s where you’re engage and that’s where you want most of your people on your team to be. And then as you just asked to get to be a master, you been doing this for about three years you’re now on the top of that S, well, guess what happens here? Because you know what you’re doing now you’ve figured out how to put all those puzzle pieces together there’s no longer very much novelty. And because there’s no novelty your brain is no longer giving you the feel good effects of learning, those dopamine hits that we love so much, and so you’re bored. And so, you said yourself there are master but in fact this is the absolute danger zone. Because when people get bored one of two things happen, they either leave, so you lost this star performer, or they disengage, they check out and they’ve become complacent which is bad for them but it’s really bad for you because bored and disengage people complacent people don’t innovate they get disrupted, they get disrupted and so you as a team in the company.   

 

Jim Rembach:   And within the book you talk about a couple different ways in order to assist people and in re-engagement process when they start hitting that level and sometimes you talk about moving sideways going backwards in order to be able to launch and propel themselves forwards, and that’s one of the things we talk about a lot on the Fast Leader show. Another thing that seems to be really interesting is you talk about seven accelerants of learning and growth. You talked about managers really needing to know what this seven accelerants are, let’s share with them real quick. You have the right risk, distinctive strengths, embracing constraints, battle against entitlement that step back and grow that I mentioned a second ago, give failure its due, be discovery driven, why this seven? 

 

Whitney Johnson:   What we found in our research in just backing up a little bit to get to the foundation of all this ideas is that—I had worked on Wall Street as we talked about it in the bio and then had disrupted myself connected with Clayton Christensen at Harvard Business School who came up with this theory of disruptive innovation. He wrote a seminal book called the Innovators Dilemma and so this whole theory of disruption of this silly little thing that can eventually take over the world and therefore you improve your odds to success. Toyota takes over General Motors Neflix takes over Blockbuster the telephone took over the telegraph so what happens over and over and over again. And so when I had this big aha about—this theory doesn’t just apply to products it actually also applies to people I stead out to really think through this and quality a framework of personal disruption so that you would know that it’s time for you when you’ve gotten to the top of the learning curve and it’s time for you to do something new how do you know when it’s time to do that? But then once you do it what are the steps or what are those leverage that you can pull that can allow you to move along the learning curve really quickly. And so on our research we found this different leverage that you just talked about taking the right kind of risk plain to your strengths, embrace constraints etc. So those seven leverage come from the research that we’ve done. 

 

Jim Rembach:   So you think about, we’re talking about the constraints piece but you talked about the engagement part within the S learning curve and that’s kind of like the feel good part of the job, but the thing is you kind of made an interesting when you kind of threw this people a curve ball. In the book you talk about giving them constraints in order to keep sweet spot employees disrupting so you have to keep challenging them. 

 

Whitney Johnson:   That’s right, that’s right. And what happens frequently is you get a person in their sweet spot, in fact just the other day I was talking to one of my coaching clients and he was talking about we’re kind of doing this inventory of the people who are working for him and he was saying, yeah, this woman Susan, that’s not her real name, she is just doing a fantastic job, I’m like, good I said are you pushing her? He’s like, huh, no I’m not. Like, give her strengths assignments you’ve got to push her because it’s basically a law of physics like we need friction we need challenges and to move up that curve which is really steep you need the challenge of something that you quite know how to do and then you’ll be able to innovate. Now a couple of reasons why we don’t do it? Number one is everything is working and tend to ignore people and things when they’re working so that’s one reason we don’t. Another reason we don’t is that when people are doing really well and they in our mind become a high potential we’re actually afraid that they’ll fail and so then we don’t want to give them things that will challenge them but if you’re going to allow people to really be in that sweet spot you need to be willing to give them assignments where there is the real risk of failure. So those are couple of reasons why even though we’re like—of course you would do it, while we sometimes don’t. 

 

Jim Rembach:   And as you’re talking and thinking about all of this I started thinking about the leader themselves we’re talking about frameworks don’t apply and things like that. But however, the person who is responsible for these folks and their development and their growth you have to kind of be a constant agitator yourself? 

 

Whitney Johnson:   Right absolutely. And I think that you need to be constant agitator if you got a person on this sweet spot it’s a matter of, I would say, agitator and just being aware because oftentimes they would be giving you signals but if you’re checking in with them I think this is one of those things that ends up going by the way so it’s like frequently you got really busy and you stop having check in with people. But if you’re willing to do things like, at least once a month seat with them and say, how are you doing? How are you’re people? What’s happening? You’re going to get so much information in you’ll be able to get a sense if you’re willing to be present and be aware that huh everything is working for her, I think I’m going to push her a little bit harder because we want to get more out of her. Now to be clear person A is really busy they’re super competent I’m going to give more to do. There’s this trade off their when I say give them stretch assignments it may also mean that you take something of off their plate it doesn’t just mean keep giving them more which is frequently what happens. The thing that’s interesting and helpful here is to recognize that for that person to sweet spot you give them a stretch assignment you take something off their plate but what might be now very easy for them very commonplace could be a stretch assignment for someone else and so that thing that’s become very boring for them give it to someone else and now you’ve got this ripple on effect they’ve got a stretch assignment but so do someone else. I think an important piece is it’s not just (13:00 inaudible) it’s making choices in order to continue to optimize the learning of every single person on your team.  

 

Jim Rembach:   I think that’s a great point. For me I started thinking about a car and then you don’t want people to be on cruise control you always have to help them make the turns accelerate when they need to maybe slowdown when they need to, and I think that’s very helpful to know. And also for me one of the think that I started doing is I started putting things more visual for me to remember because you talk about you get too busy we all get too busy and when I put things present in my face on the wall or something like that it causes me that pose to say, oh, gosh! Step back make sure that I’m doing the fundamental components make sure that I’m really connecting with the people who I need to be connecting with as well as you said not overloading them cause it’s too darn easy. 

 

Whitney Johnson:   Exactly, those visual reminders were hugely helpful.

 

Jim Rembach:   Definitely for me. I don’t know if it’s a gender thing or not my wife doesn’t need she does it all in her head I’m like I don’t know what’s inside there I got to see it. 

 

Whitney Johnson:   I actually don’t think—I think they might be learning cells but I think we all need visual reminders or certainly check-ins I have this list of questions I ask myself every day, did I do this? Did I try my best to do this? Because otherwise I won’t do that.

 

Jim Rembach:   That’s for sure. Now I do want to cover with this sweet spot disruption items art that you have in here because to me it’s really interesting when I started looking at these and I started thinking about that they really cause people to learn how to achieve which is a very different thing than learning how to compete or do a task. So you talk about time maybe adding a brick wall deadline and moving the target up or changing some priorities money or other resources in other words taking some of those things away and saying, hey, if you didn’t have as much or if you didn’t have this or that what would you do differently? 

 

By the way saying it to them not in sense of, hey, were going to do this because were punishing you, part of this is in the framing, a lot of these is in the framing it’s not like, oh, were taking your budget away therefore you’re not valuable to us anymore which oftentimes is how it comes across it’s, okay, I think you got more in you so I’m going to have this budget for next three months I want you to see what you can do, it doesn’t mean it’s gone away, so there’s a big framing piece here. 

 

Jim Rembach:   That is so true cause otherwise everything—this is one reason why I hate the whole swat analysis type of thing because it becomes a weakness and a threat, right? And everything’s a weakness and a threat, I hate that. 

 

Whitney Johnson:   Yeah, exactly. 

 

Jim Rembach:   So then expertise maybe looking at a particular issue that you’re trying to solve more so a novice or maybe for us a lot of people who are my audience as a customer, right? You can have customer-centric focus. And then by-in which is trying to get those people to learn how to sell their innovative ideas both internally and I won’t even say externally, right? 

 

Whitney Johnson:   Absolutely. Yeah, and I think so often—the buy in thing I think is such an interesting or something that I thought so much about because whenever you’re trying to get someone to buy into your idea whether your selling to them to your customer or getting buy in for an idea internally you were effectively asking that person so everybody is on the learning curve all of us are. You effectively asking that person to jump to a new learning curve and it’s not their learning curve at least not right now, are you trying to find it you work, and so how do you pack a parachute for them so that they feel that it had become their learning curve and they actually wanted them and that whole challenge of buy in we talked about it all the time and most of us are really, really bad at it.

 

Jim Rembach:   I would agree. I was just having this conversation, I think it was yesterday, about what I referred to as convince her strategy, you really have to know your target the people who you’re trying to get to buy in and at the way that they go about their decision making process in order for you to effectively apply the right framework in order to get them to buy in it’s definitely a science that’s within itself. Another thing that I really like in book, because I see, I even see it at the very youngest level still in elementary, middle school and even high school is this issue around failure and then how to respond to failure. I see too often kids getting the opportunity to get a grace or mulligan or a pass on a lot of things so that they don’t experience the failure process. But yet we’ll turn around time failures important you have to fail in order to be able to overcome but we don’t teach them how to respond to failure. I really like the framework that you put together on how to actually doing that because in order for us to take risk, achieve and really experience something that’s going to be different than everyone else they have that breakthrough performance that A team, we have got to respond to failure well. And so you talk about—first of all begin with why the failure happened and then you talked about what was the failure result of is it that the person or the team fail because they’re on the wrong role, we put them on the wrong spot, where there unrealistic expectation and do we need to make some changes to that? And then how quickly can we recover from it? That framework to me was so powerful I think we all really need to learn how to respond to failure and then teach people—you talk being an agitator, hey, you failed now let’s analyze it and go to these steps.`

 

Whitney Johnson:   Exactly, and give people an opportunity too. And I think you allow them to actually make a mistake. And be invested enough in them to analyze how the mistake was made and to go through to those series of questions that you just (19:10)

 

Jim Rembach:   Because to me that’s definitely a growth and a learning process  that’s extremely valuable that will get people to mastery a heck of a lot faster. 

 

Whitney Johnson:   Absolutely, absolutely.

 

Jim Rembach:   Okay, a lot of what we’re talking about here is this riddled and filled with all kinds of emotions and we need to focus in order to move forward faster and a lot of times on the show we focus on quotes in order to help us get that focus and that energy. Is there a quote or two that you like that you can share?

 

Whitney Johnson:   Yeah, one that I specially love is a Ralph Waldo Emerson, Rings and jewels are but apologies for gift the only true gift is a portion of thy self.  That quote really is meaningful for me because I think that whether I’m writing, whether I’m talking giving a speech whether I’m coaching whether I’m doing a podcast with you I can give ideas but if I don’t give a portion of myself how I feel and I don’t give my attention to you, it’s funny I’m closing my eyes because I‘m thinking through this and I’m not looking at you, if I don’t give my attention to you then it doesn’t matter if I give you ring it doesn’t matter if I give you jewels I really do believe that the only real gift that any of us have to give the only one that really means is a portion of ourselves and oftentimes that portion of ourselves is that for that moment in time where you become the most important person in the world. That to me is the only real gift that we can give to people. 

 

Jim Rembach:   I love that quote and I also love your elaboration and deep meaning associated with it. Just like you have said a while back sometimes we just get too busy and we forget all of those things but that’s really the difference maker I’m talking about building that A-team it’s giving of self in order to make other greater.

 

Whitney Johnson:   Right, exactly, exactly. And it requires that we feel enough the sense of self there’s this ripple effect so if we’re not feeling that sense of self that we can give to others then we’ve got to figure out what’s happening for us so that we can do it for others. 

 

Jim Rembach:   Most definitely. And so when we start talking about coming to that realization for yourself typically we have to go over a lot of humps in order to be able to get to that point, there’s just a lot of learning opportunity. Is there a time where you’ve gotten over a hump that you can share with us?

 

Whitney Johnson:   Yeah, so this a really interesting question, when I was working on Wall Street I was a star analyst and I was an equity analyst and is picking stocks this and buy this is a sell upgrade downgrade it, and I have had a fantastic year. My metrics were good I was good at picking stocks we written really good research just everything was good. Except, except when I got a feedback from all my peers, the 360 feedback it was really bad I just got back feedback. And so that was first of all a huge punch in the gut and I felt terribly misunderstood, this is probably been 15 years ago now, I felt terribly misunderstood so they got me a coach and I basically said I am going this round I’m going to turn it around and I did the next year when I got the feedback back out of—I don’t know I think 50 or 60 people when they look at the 360 feedback I had the second highest rating of anyone, so that’s good but that’s not the lesson. This is what I think is interesting as I reflect on this question that you just asked me, recently I interviewed from my podcast a fellow by the name of Carl Cast and he’s written a whole book on derailers, what could derail you in your career? And there’s this whole quiz that you can take and there’s five different categories that you can fall into them. And I took the quiz and I was thinking I’m pretty sure I’m going to be like—one of the categories is a whirling durbish and there are a couple of other categories, I don’t remember all of them you can go and checkup the podcast, but one of them I was like, oh, no I’m definitely not that one—I was that one, it was captain fantastic. What is the description of captain fantastic?  Alienates people bruises them with sharp elbows and blind spots. So I think that the real realization for me as I reflect on that experience it’s not that I turn it around, although I think that’s important I think it was—because I think of the time I was kind of going through the motion I’m just going to prove like that brass ring I’m going to do this. I think now for me the lesson is as you think about this moving up the learning curve and this idea of battling our sense of title, entitlement or sense of self or sense of this is ideas growing up their ** minds which by the way it the hardest one. The lesson for me is you have to know who your stakeholders are you have to be able to get along with your stakeholders you have to be able to get buy in from your stakeholders and if can’t do that you’re not going to get a whole lot done. And by the way, you’re not going to be a nice person either but you’re really not going to be able to get very much done. And so for me the big lesson was, how do I battle my own sense of entitlement? We’re all entitled it’s just a matter of how. And how do I figure out who my stakeholders are and how do I figure out how to get buy in from the stakeholders so that I can get things done and that was a big learning opportunity for me and one that has continued to be a learning opportunity as overtime I grow up I’m able to translate and interpret and gain more meaning from that experience. 

 

Jim Rembach:   Thanks for sharing that. As you’re talking I also started thinking about as I’ve gone through getting close to a couple of hundred podcast right now and talking to different folks about the things that they feel are their passion and the course where their careers have taken them I often find this hump story and the things that they share being quite interesting meaning that, okay, you’re on Wall Street you’re a financial analyst  when people think about Wall Street they think about—hey that is the pinnacle you’re already want to be anywhere else, that’s a perception that a lot of people may have. But now you’re in coaching and you’re writing book, so, could it be that the reason that you’re here is because of that experience and the challenge that it had given you and how you found a passion in order to better yourself and now you want to help others do it. 

 

Whitney Johnson:   Yeah, certainly. I certainly, absolutely contributing factor of disability to now be able to coach people and to think about this ideas of how do you build a great team. I think yeah, absolutely any time we look at one of our big, big failures I think almost always if we will let it in that failure are the seeds of some great success and more importantly you need contributions that we can make to those around us. 

 

Jim Rembach:   I think that’s an important think especially we talk about that person who’s reached that mastery is helping them to do that give back, right?

 

Whitney Johnson:   Yeah, absolutely. 

 

Jim Rembach:   Okay, so now you do have a lot of things going on—you’re promoting the book you’re doing a lot of coaching, family, all of those things are important, when you start thinking about goals do you have one goal that you could talk about, what would it be?

 

Whitney Johnson:   Here I’ll show it to you can you see this? This is post now. Wall Street Journal best seller for Build an A Team that’s my goal right now. And so why is that my goal? Because it focuses my energy of getting this book into the hands of those many leaders as possible. Because when you and I know that every single person on your team is a learning machine where you can learn and you can live and you repeat and make it possible for repeated person disruption people are happy and engaged, as I said earlier, and they love working for you they love coming to work and because all of those things are happening you ship more products and so there’s this fortress cyle. That simple goal it focuses my energy how do I sell as many books as possible the goal being Wall Street Journal best seller and so that is my short term goal right now that I think about every day. 

 

Jim Rembach:   And the Fast Leader legion wishes you the very best. Now before we move on let’s get a quick word from our sponsor.

 

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Jim Rembach:     Alright, here we go Fast Leader legion it’s time for the Hump Day Hoedown. Okay, Whitney, the Hump Day Hoedown is a part of our show where you give us good insights fast. I’m going to ask you several questions and your job is to give us a robust yet rapid responses that are going to help us move onward and upward faster. Whitney Johnson, are you ready to hoedown?

 

Whitney Johnson:   I’m ready for hoedown. 

 

Jim Rembach:   Alright. What do you think is holding you back from being an even better leader today?

 

Whitney Johnson:   How I think about myself whatever I believe myself. I’m doing a ton of work to change how I think because if I can change how I think change what I do I’ll change what I build. My belief is that the fundamental unit of disruption is the individuals, companies don’t disrupt people do. So if I can disrupt the curve version of me I can change my world and maybe the rest of the world just a little bit.   

 

Jim Rembach:   What is the best leadership advice you have ever received?

 

Whitney Johnson:   I’m going to give you three. One is do not dare not to dare, C.S. Louise and another is I passed the test this coladrial of when we see power wanting it so desperately like The Ring and Lord of the Rings and being able to look at power and not grasp it. And then the third is a little bit more practical it’s Alan Mulally former CEO of Forbes who said, Trust the process put the process in place and then trust it. 

 

Jim Rembach:   What is one of your secrets that you believe contributes to your success? 

 

Whitney Johnson:   I’m hungry I want to improve. The brass ring it’s pretty hard wired and so I find that I’m continually nothing. I have moments of happiness and celebration of what I’ve been able to accomplish but I’m still very, very hungry.

 

Jim Rembach:   What do you feel is one of your best tools that helps you lead in business or life?

 

Whitney Johnson: I have a great team of people that I work with and the Headspace app. 

 

Jim Rembach:   What would be one book that you’d recommend to our listeners and it could be from any genre, of course we’re going to put a link to Build an A Team on your show notes page as well.

 

Whitney Johnson:   Yeah, you know that’s so funny I remember once I was doing this question and I ask people, what book had inspired you? And this man said my book, I’m like no, what book? And he’s like, my book, I said, no, you can’t say your book anyway. So, the book that inspired me are two that I think that really are powerful is Grit by Angela Duckworth and Born Rich by Bob Proctor. 

 

Jim Rembach:   Okay, Fast Leader legion, you can find links to that and other bonus information from today’s show by going to fastleader.net/Whitney Johnson. Okay, Whitney this is my last Hump Day Hoedown question: Imagine you were given the opportunity go back to the age of 25 and you’ve been given the opportunity to take the knowledge and skills that you have now back with you but you can’t take everything back you choose one. So what skill or piece of knowledge would you take back with you and why? 

 

Whitney Johnson:   Because I’m a disruptor I’m going to give you more than one. The first is get a coach now, now, now, now don’t wait until there’s a problem everybody needs a coach athlete needs a coach you need it.  Second is recognize that everything is a head game. If you can change how you think and feel not just consume information but like really change your habits and your hire wiring that’s going to make all the difference. Because if you change that then you can change how you manage your change and like I said it will make all the difference. And the thing that I would do all over again is I would marry my husband. 

 

Jim Rembach:   Whitney, it was an honor to spend time with you today. Can you please share with a Fast Leader legion how they can connect with you?

 

Whitney Johnson:   Yeah, if you want to take the escrow locator see where you are on your learning curve go to whitneyjohnson.com/diagnostic or if you want to download the first chapter of the book you can /ATeam, those are the best ways to get hold of me.

 

Jim Rembach:   Whitney Johnson thank you for sharing your knowledge and wisdom the Fast Leader legion honors you and thanks you for helping us get over the hump. Woot! Woot!

 

Thank you for joining me on the Fast Leader show today. For recaps, links from every show special offers and access to download and subscribe, if you haven’t already, head on over the fastleader.net so we can help you move onward and upward faster. 

 

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111: Bill Munn: I was tied up in my mind with financial security

Bill Munn Show Notes

In 2000 Bill Munn was soaring financially. But he was not focused on what he was best at. So Bill turned his business around and he lost of lot of clients and a lot of savings. Just before he got to the brink things started taking off. Listen to Bill share his story of how he got over this hump.

However far back you go, you’ll find Bill Munn’s roots firmly planted beside a small lake in Northern Michigan. It was there that his grandfather and first true mentor long ago discovered a nature-rich escape—one that was remote, largely untouched, and perfectly suited to the late visionary’s dream of a getaway where generations of extended family members would connect and build memories for years to come.

Bill has always been called to this place: as a young boy, forging new paths to troublemaking alongside the cousins who became his most treasured friends and confidants; as a young man, working his tail off every night and day of the summer season in order to remain on the shores of that beloved lake; as a young father, working even harder as an oft-travelling executive, determined that his wife and 3 daughters could spend every day of their summers in that place.

Today, as a veteran management coach with his own independent practice, that lake is no longer a retreat he visits and longs for, but the place he calls home.

Incidentally, it’s also helped to inspire the framework for a leadership and personal-growth program that has become part of his legacy: the power-alley attributes concept. As Bill helped clients identify and leverage inherent strengths—or attributes—in themselves and others within their organizations, he found that the natural world reflected one of his most powerful leadership philosophies.

Just as an eagle is built for soaring while the elegant loon is designed for deep diving, so too does each human being have powerful and unique attributes that are key to personal success in business, leadership, and life—as well as team success.

For over 26 years, Bill has supported hundreds of corporate leaders and their teams as a management-coach. Being a former top-level executive of a Dow 30 and Fortune 500 company, Bill brings real-world experience to his seminars, training programs, and one-on-one coaching, supporting clients with practical wisdom, real-world action tools, and unbiased insight.

Bill is the bestselling author of two books, including Why Make Eagles Swim?: Embracing Natural Strengths in Leadership and Life and Lead or Be Led: A Guide for Intentional Living.

Bill and his wife, Lindy, split their time between Ohio and beautiful northern Michigan, where they often welcome their three daughters, three sons-in-law, and ten grandchildren.

Tweetable Quotes and Mentions

Listen to @billmunncoach to get over the hump on the @FastLeaderShow Click to Tweet

“All people come out of the womb with an inherent attribute profile.” -Bill Munn Click to Tweet

“Don’t even try to change your attributes.” -Bill Munn Click to Tweet 

“Think about changing behavior, not attributes.” -Bill Munn Click to Tweet 

“You can choose to behave differently and work hard at it.” -Bill Munn Click to Tweet 

“Go for what brings you joy – what brings you joy you will be good at.” -Bill Munn Click to Tweet 

“Generally in life, what you’re good at will provide a good living.” -Bill Munn Click to Tweet 

“The entire cosmos, with one insignificant exception, is made up of other people.” -Bill Munn Click to Tweet 

“I love the richness of different perspectives.” -Bill Munn Click to Tweet 

“The world is working with other people.” -Bill Munn Click to Tweet 

“It’s not that they need to understand me, I need to understand them.” -Bill Munn Click to Tweet 

“You understanding yourself is just a great place to start.” -Bill Munn Click to Tweet 

“Where I want people to end is tuning to other people around them.” -Bill Munn Click to Tweet 

“When you genuinely tune into others they naturally become engaged.” -Bill Munn Click to Tweet 

Hump to Get Over

In 2000 Bill Munn was soaring financially. But he was not focused on what he was best at. So Bill turned his business around and he lost of lot of clients and a lot of savings. Just before he got to the brink things started taking off. Listen to Bill share his story of how he got over this hump.

Advice for others

Tune into other people around you. Those people are broadcasting all day long. Set your tuner and you’ll start listening to people in a whole new way.

Holding him back from being an even better leader

Time

Best Leadership Advice Received

Treat other people the way you want to be treated.

Secret to Success

Get insight from God

Best tools that helps in Business or Life

Prayer

Recommended Reading

Why Make Eagles Swim?: Embracing Natural Strengths in Leadership & Life

New American Standard Bible

Contacting Bill

Website: https://billmunncoaching.com/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/billmunncoaching/

Twitter: https://twitter.com/billmunncoach

Resources and Show Mentions

54 Emotional Intelligence (EQ) Competencies List: Emotional Intelligence has proven to be the right kind of intelligence to have if you want to move onward and upward faster. Get your free list today.

 

Show Transcript: 

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111: Bill Munn: I was tied up in my mind with financial security

Intro Welcome to the Fast Leader Podcast, where we explore convenient yet effective shortcuts that will help you get ahead and move forward faster by becoming a better leader. And now here’s your host, customer and employee engagement expert and certified emotional intelligence practitioner, Jim Rembach.

 

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Jim Rembach:    Okay, Fast Leader Legion, today I’m excited because when I heard the title of this person’s book that we’re going to discuss today I knew I had to have him on the show. However, far back ago you’ll find Bill Munn’s roots firmly planted beside a small lake in northern Michigan. It was there that his grandfather and his first true mentor long ago discovered a nature rich escape one that was remote largely untouched and perfectly suited to the late visionaries dream of a getaway where generations of extended family members would connect and build memories for years to come. Bill has always been called to this place. As a young boy forging new pass to troublemaking alongside the cousins who became his most treasured friends and confidants.  As a young man, working off his tail every night and day of the summer season in order to remain on the shores of that beloved lake. 

 

As a young father working even harder as an oft traveling executive determined that his wife and three daughters could spend every day of their summers in that place. Today as a veteran management coach with his own independent practice that lake is no longer retreated visits and longed for but a place he calls home. Incidentally he’s also helped to inspire the framework for a leadership and personal growth program that has become part of his legacy, the power-alley attributes concept. As Bill helped clients identify and leverage inherent strengths are attributes in themselves and others and within organizations he found that the natural world reflected one of his most powerful leadership philosophies. Just as an eagle is built to soar while the elegant loon is designed for deep diving so too does each human being have powerful and unique attributes that are key to personal success in business, leadership and life as well as team success. For over 26 years, Bill has supported hundreds of corporate leaders and their teams as a management coach being a former top level executive of a Dow 30 and Fortune 500 company, Bill brings real world experiences to seminars, training programs, and one-on-one coaching supporting clients with practical wisdom, real-world action tools and unbiased insight. Bill is the best-selling author of two books including, Why make Eagle Swim? Embracing Natural Strengths and Leadership in Life and Lead or Be Led: The Guide for Intentional Living. Bill and his wife Mindy split their time between Ohio and the beautiful northern Michigan lake where they often welcome three daughters, three sons in laws and 10 grandchildren. Bill Munn are you ready to help us get over the hump? 

 

Bill Munn:    I’m ready.

 

Jim Rembach:    Bill, I’ve given our listeners a little bit about you but can you tell us what your current passion is so that we get to know you even better. 

 

Bill Munn:    My current passion that has been Jim for about three decades or more, the three decades I’ve been coaching and a little bit beyond, is how to help people achieve their vision of what they define as a fulfilled life. 

 

Jim Rembach:    There’s so many things that I want to talk to you after going through and reading the book, Why make Eagle Swim? Because one coach I often use her statements and I’ll say is that, when people are doing something that just doesn’t seem right in regards to either placing an individual or asking a team to do certain things, I will say, “Do you really want to put a duck in a desert? 

 

Bill Munn:    I love it. Yeah, that could have been the title of the book. I love that phrase, I haven’t heard it before. 

 

Jim Rembach:    It’s just like you never want to do that, it’s pending doom. If you’re going to put the duck in the desert it’s pending doom if you’re going to make that eagle swim. In the book you actually talked about the difference between attributes and skills, help us understand that. 

 

Bill Munn:    Skills are learned, essentially, knowledge and skills both are learned. Attributes come with, Jim, Bill, others, all people I believe come out of the womb with an inherent attribute profile. In fact, the longer I do that—I started out 15 years ago 25 years ago with attributes telling people, 15 years old you probably have your attribute profile. The longer I’ve done this the more people I’ve worked with the more I’ve decided I think it’s earlier than any of us think. I’m not sure we can never prove that. I don’t think we have the tools but I think if we could I wouldn’t be at all surprised if we find out we were that way from the beginning we just didn’t know how to express it. 

 

Jim Rembach:    As you said that so many things resonate with me especially being a father of three kids that if you look at them from a personality perspective they couldn’t be any more different. 

 

Bill Munn:    I love it, that’s right, exactly. 

 

Jim Rembach:    And my middle son I struggle with when it comes to some of the things that I know what I’m doing is I’m putting that duck in the desert, I’m trying to make that eagle swim and I need to stop doing that. And that’s one of the things that you talk about as far as forces you know in the book. In it you called you’re trying to help force. 

 

Bill Munn:    Yes, that’s exactly right. And what you’re describing, I love your empathy that’s so real it comes from those who love us, like you love your son. And we come to these conclusions as parents and our parents I believe did the same thing. We come to these conclusions, “Oh, I don’t want them to go through that thing that I suffered and we perceive that if we hadn’t been this way or we’ve been more this way we would have gotten past this hurdle or that hurdle. And so, we want very much to help our child avoid that hurdle and the fact is, A. It’s not going to work and B. It actually creates to divide and they’re going to grow from the hurdle anyway but believe me it I love your heart. It’s easy to say those words to a parent but as a parent a grandparent I can tell you I’m with you, it hurts why you’re doing it. 

 

Jim Rembach:    It does and it’s my issue really isn’t his. One of the things that stood out, you said a word a moment ago talking about vision and being able to see and understand our own attributes and quite frankly I don’t think we really ever do that unless we are exposed to your work and your findings and have to explore it, we just don’t do it naturally. It’s not one of our attributes—self exploration, it’s not there. But when you talk about this attribute profile and building your attribute view profile, explain that? Because to me I think when you say vision you’ve got to go through the attribute profile and or have vision of self. 

 

Bill Munn:    Yes. The attribute profile is simply a snapshot if you will or a picture of your individual set of attributes. Super strong ones the medium strong ones the medium ones the super weak ones, it’s the arrangement, the picture of the ranking of those attributes. And the profile that I focus on in the book is 14 attributes. I have so far over the years collected a list of 77 human attributes but I decided that if I try to teach you or anyone else from the beginning a list that you need to memorize 77 attributes, I know you’ll lose your day one. So, I combined them into this primer list that once people get comfortable with then they can begin adding others but whatever number of attributes you evaluate you’re going to have a profile, you’re going to have some that are extraordinarily high in you I call those power alley there on auto pilot, you in effect cannot do them. The you’re going to have some of the other extreme that are so low I call those challenges, that you really can’t do them you can’t do them with any semblance of reality or goodness. In between the good news is all the rest of our attributes are functional meaning we can do them when we recognize, oh, I’m in one of those more moments where I need to focus on this attribute, those fall into high medium low in your profile. You’ve got high functional attributes that are a snap for you to switch into. You can turn them on in heartbeat.  You have medium and then you have low which are struggle for you to do but you can do them you just have to focus harder. Think of most attributes you can practice when you need to. 

 

I think one of the things that’s interesting to me and you talk about strengths and focusing on strengths, some of these particular attributes that we would become more cognizant of really frost to actually be there’s no way they’re going to become power house, it’s just not going to happen. What can we realistically expect from ourselves if we have a particular attribute that we want to become better at that you it’s going to take some move and change in effort you’re talking about effort there’s somebody while back where I read something it talks about we only have so many energy units within a particular day. And when we focus in on our weaknesses we burn energy units really darn fast. 

 

Yes. 

 

So, if you were to say that somebody’s down in that lower level, what can they expect as far as movements are concern,  time, effort all that what?

 

What I tell people, and it’s almost always a revelation for them and I love the fact that they’ll tell me often it sets them free, don’t even try to change your attributes. Don’t even think that way, think about behavior not attributes. Quick example, I use it with lots of audiences, I’ll use it with yours because it tells a story about me. I have an attribute, it’s not one of the 14, but it is one of the 77 by the way, I have an attribute called addictive. I didn’t choose it but I got it. I’ve proven it. I was a smoker. I drink too much. I’ve tried it all, I get addicted easily, and that’s an attribute. I quit smoking. I quit drinking, believe me it didn’t change the fact that I have an addictive attribute, what it changed was my behavior. So, you can choose to behave differently and work hard at it. It doesn’t change the core attribute but it changes your behavior either in all of your life, like my example, or in certain situations. You can choose if you are a low relational and you’re headed for a party and with family members you don’t care a bit about you can choose to behave relationally for the evening, it’s going to work it’s going to be hard on you you’re going to come home tired. A high relational come home lick full of energy but you can do it. It didn’t change your low relational attribute. 

 

Jim Rembach:    That’s a really good point. One of the things that I found interesting and I haven’t had the opportunity to fully read the whole book yet and so I did a light skimming  and it cause me to definitely want to go deeper and as well as explore a little bit more about myself. You started breaking using the attribute profile things that occur within somebody’s day, life, events and things like that and helping them understand the power piece, not strong in a particular attribute piece so that they can set a better course of action. To me I think that is extremely powerful because there’s so many people who are saying, “Well I don’t know what I want to do I’m not happy, I feel lost. What direction do I need to go, I think this would help.” 

 

Bill Munn:    Oh, it’s very definitely helps. In fact, the attributes component has become a huge contributor to a whole thing I do with clients that’s grown over the recent years called career vision. It’s a combination of attributes and your vision for your career. And the whole idea is, a lot of people start looking at a career like a job change or whatever and they say, let’s see what I should do. I should be salesman or I should be a nurse or I should be an account. And I said no. No, no, don’t jump to the job you should do. Start with you, your attribute profile and your vision two separate efforts then bring them together and say, Okay, given this vision for my life this is how I want to be, feel, act, etcetera, that’s my vision in my career and over here is who I am. You put those two together and say, Oh, okay I’m a really low caregiver. I don’t care how much job security or money there is in nursing I don’t belong there, that simple. My wife is a huge caregiver, she’d be a natural. Whether it was secure job or high-paying or anything else that’s not the point,  go for what brings you joy what brings you joy you will be good at and generally in life what you’re good at will provide a good living.

 

Jim Rembach:    Definitely I see this being able to set a lot of people on a significantly more efficient course of

Direction. 

 

Bill Munn:    I hope so. 

 

Jim Rembach:    As well as more effective. Now I know going through this work, going through this process, all the experiences that you’ve had there’s a whole lot of inspiration that can be garnered from this. On the show we like to look at quotes to help us with inspiration. Is there a quote or two that you can share with us? 

 

Bill Munn:    Yes, there are a bunch but that’s an excellent, excellent question. The core quotation that I think speaks immediately to my vision for people from the attributes concept is: The entire cosmos with one insignificant exception is made up of other people. I want people to focus on the richness of—Hey, Jim’s different than I am—that’s rich instead of that’s irritating. Not everybody like Bill Munn, thank goodness. I spend enough time with him. I love the richness of different perspectives. The whole reason in fact that I started attributes, I started it before I became a coach used it when I was an executive, is that every personality type thing I’d been through focused on me—who am I? 

 

What’s my personality type? Etcetera, etcetera. And I kept   saying as a manager, wait a minute, the world is working with other people it’s not just about me getting other people to work with me it’s not that they need to understand me I need to understand them. So, I started attributes from the perspective of the end of the book which is listening for revelation and tuning into other people. Who are they? Like you talking about your son, you tuning in to your son is what I wanted attributes for as supposed to you understanding, Jim. You understanding yourself is just a great place to start for you to learn the concept but where I want people to end is tuning in to all the people around them. Those people are broadcasting all day long, all of us are what are our attribute profile is we just don’t know that we are. And if you set your tuner you set the channel to that other person instead of to yourself and train yourself you start listening to people in a whole new way. 

 

Jim Rembach:    I think for me that is exactly the way that it happens. I need to understand myself better to see how that even my behavior impacts the effect of their attributes. So, even like my own you know son talking about them not try to put them in the wrong spot I try to expect things different from him that just aren’t there and so I shouldn’t try to force that particular issue. The same thing applies if it was a co-worker whether it’s a friend or a family member, all of those things that comes into play. I need to know me and how I could potentially affect them and just have a greater level of compassion for them.  

 

Bill Munn:    Yes, exactly. One of the interesting things and it’s ironic in a way it’s the results I’ve heard back over the decades with this. People will come to me and say, “You know, Bill, I used to just ride my son or my daughter about this or that issue. After doing the attributes thing I went home and I talked to him and we’re having entirely different conversations. And I told him, a lot of people have done that they’ve told me these stories. I told my kid, let’s not talk anymore about this stuff you don’t like but let’s talk about the stuff that lights you up. I’ve been doing it the wrong way they’ve been shown the handouts themselves. Interesting reports back six months later a year later, because I’m with these clients on an ongoing basis, Jim, they report back to me, you know what, she meaning the daughter is starting to focus more on those other areas that she doesn’t like. And I’ve asked her about it and she said, well you know, since you’re focusing on what I like I figure I ought to focus a little bit on what you think’s important. So the irony is that all the stuff we were trying to accomplish was simply creating a divide. And now when we just focus on tuning into them and what’s important to them they then do the same thing in return. And that happens, we see it quickly at home but it happens with teams too. 

 

Jim Rembach:    I’m glad that you shared that because there’s one of the things that I like that to talk about is that we always talk about trying to get people to buy right into our vision, buy into plan, buy into their job—buy in—but I think what you described is that we get people to fall into it to it. 

 

Bill Munn:    I love that contrast. You’re exactly right. When you genuinely tune in to the other person’s attributes and you genuinely tune in to helping them see how they can use their strong attributes to accomplish the goals in their role, whatever that is their response to that just naturally is to be more engaged. Because when we’re working higher up our chain of attributes we’re more passionate, we’re more joyful, we’re more engaged it’s where we like to be and we’ve been told to work on the bottom of our list. But now you’ve got someone, this boss, with this new revelation and he’s ask he or she to work on the top of your list someone’s asking me to have fun and engagement and joy and passion, feed right from that quite naturally. 

 

Jim Rembach:    Definitely.  So I know throughout the course of your career, kids, family and traveling, your work, there’s a lot of things that you’ve your own opportunities to learn from and we talk about getting over the hump on the show. Is there a story that you can share it with us that when you had to go over hump? 

 

Bill Munn:    Oh, yeah. In 2000 I was soaring financially but I was not focused on what I was best at, which was helping people. I was so tied up in my mind with financial security and I found less and less fulfillment less and less happiness in what I was doing. I was doing it well but less and less happiness I was getting miserable I recognized it. 

 

Jim Rembach:    So, who are you with? And what were you doing at the time?

 

Bill Munn:    We had three children, they were in college age and early young adulthood. We had a big home and we had a happy marriage. We had good financial security, the financial rewards had been substantial. But I knew that the underpinnings just weren’t right for me and for who I was. I turned the business around to focus it on helping. I started doing a lot more pro bono coaching. I started giving away a lot more money and what God did with that was just what I’d asked for he took away a huge portion of that pile, I call it my financial security, and our finances went south, we lost clients, we lost savings. Stayed the course, stayed with it, kept praying heavily and I stayed focus on I’m going to help people I know this is right I was happier than I had ever been more joyful deep down but the surface stuff looked like a train wreck. We got real close to the very end by 2006 and I mean the end of savings, the point where we might have to sell our other home, talk about poverty right? My poverty was that I might have to sell a second home, I love American poverty, got there got to the edge of the brink and then things started taking off. I’m now 71, that was 11 years ago and we’ve had 11 years in a row where every year’s been more rewarding than the one prior but in this case not only financially but also in terms of fulfillment. I finally started using my own power alley attributes which are very heavy on the developer side helping and encouraging other people. 

 

Jim Rembach:    I think of the things—talking about that time spans is not too many people will persevere through that for that long  period of time that duration. Are you telling me that it’s faith that really kept you going?

 

Bill Munn:    Absolutely, that was the only thing that kept me going.  A great wife who stayed with me and kept encouraging me and she didn’t sit there saying constantly you’re screwing up, you’re wrecking our life, she was absolutely a miracle during that time but she’s a gift from him too so I count her in the equation. But it was turning to genuine prayer, genuine surrender and genuinely giving up on my own efforts and going where he wanted me to go with helping people and ignoring the financial side and then what I now know is typical. I believe that what he does is think something like, Okay, now you’re ready now. Now I can give you more money without destroying you. And he was exactly right because to give me more money back when I was getting more money was destroying me. Now that doesn’t make money evil, don’t come to the wrong conclusion this is not a lecture on what conclusions other people should come to in their life base on my attributes and my walk in life this is where he needed to take me that does not mean he needs to take everybody there.  

 

Jim Rembach:    So, I know right now, you have published a couple books, you have the consulting and coaching practice, the family, you have a lot of things going on, if you were to say one goal that you had what would it?

 

Bill Munn:    Right now the whole family and faith areas of my life are really going along beautifully the big effort right now that we’re engaged in is what we call attributes academy. I’m developing an online set of videos to make up an online course so that people can tune into that and consult those videos and learn and review for the rest of their lives, I hope, the attributes concept real-time, anytime they want to online. One of the disadvantages right now up until the book, one of the disadvantages with the attributes concept is that the only people that got exposed to it could afford my coaching. An individual personalized coaching is expensive, so they’re just millions and millions of people that could benefit—the book is a tool, the attributes academy is to take those people who when they finish the book would really love to get more engaged in this it gives them away to take this course and keep it with them and have access to it forever. 

 

Jim Rembach:    And the Fast Leader Legion wishes you the very best. Now, before we move on let’s get a quick word from our sponsor:

 

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Jim Rembach:    Alright here we go, Fast Leader listeners it’s time for the Hump Day Hoedown. Okay, bill the Hump Day Hoedown is a part of our show where you give us good insights fast. So, I’m going to ask you several questions and your job is to give us a robust yet rapid responses that are going to help us move onward and upward faster.  Bill Munn, are you ready to hoedown? 

 

Bill Munn:     Yap. 

 

Jim Rembach:    All right. What do you think is holding you back from being an even better leader today?

 

Bill Munn:    Time. 

 

Jim Rembach:    What is the best leadership advice you have ever received? 

 

Bill Munn:    Treat other people the way you want to be treated.

 

Jim Rembach:    What is one of your secrets that you believe contributes to your success?

 

Bill Munn:    Get insight from God. 

 

Jim Rembach:    What do you feel is one of the best tools that helps you lead in business or life?

 

Bill Munn:    Prayer, no question. 

 

Jim Rembach:    What would be one book, and it could be from any genre, that you recommend to our listeners? And of course we’ll put a link to, Why Make Eagle Swim, on our show notes page as well. 

 

Bill Munn:    So, I don’t have to recommend that one. 

 

Jim Rembach:    I’ve got it man, I already recommended it.

 

Bill Munn:    I would say bang on the Bible. 

 

Jim Rembach:    Okay, Fast Leader listeners you can find links to that and other bonus information from today’s show by going to fastleader.net/Bill Munn. Okay, Bill, this is my last Hump Day Hoedown question: Imagine you were given the opportunity to go back to the age of 25 and you’ve been given the opportunity to take the knowledge and skills that you have now back with you but you can’t take everything back you can only choose one, so what skill or piece of knowledge would you take back with you and why?

 

Bill Munn:    How to tune in to other people through listening for revelation. Because I was completely absorbed in myself at age 25 and I wish that I could have gone back and tuned in to others.  

 

Jim Rembach:    Bill, it was an honor to spend time with you today, can you please share with the Fast Leader Legion how they can connect with you? 

 

Bill Munn:    The quickest and easiest most thorough way is, billmunncoaching.com 

 

Jim Rembach:    Bill Munn, thank you for sharing your knowledge and wisdom the Fast Leader Legion honors you and thanks you for helping us get over the hump. 

 

Thank you for joining me on the Fast Leader show today. For recaps, links from every show special offers and access to download and subscribe, if you haven’t already, head on over the fastleader.net, so we can help you move onward and upward faster. 

 

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085: Bob Tiede: I didn’t think my heart was wrong

Bob Tiede Show Notes

Bob Tiede had an Executive Vice President volunteer to fund raise for the organization he worked for. After two years he resigned. Shortly after that Bob learned the reason he resigned. It was because Bob was a benevolent teller. Listen to Bob’s story of how he learned a new way to move onward and upward faster.

Bob grew up on a farm in South Dakota where he earned his PHD at age 9!  That is when his Dad conferred on him the title of PHD standing for Post Hole Digger after he successfully dug his very first post hole all by himself.

Bob grew up in a very close extended family.  His Dad and his 3 brothers and 1 sister all had farms within 5 miles of each other.  All five families along with Grandpa and Grandma went to the same church and Bob and all of cousins attended the same school from grades 1-12!

Bob Tiede graduated from the University of South Dakota in 1971 where both he and his wife Sherry became involved with a Christian Student Movement now called Cru.

Upon Graduation they joined the staff of Cru where they have now served for 45 years. Bob serves on the Leadership Development Team – Developing the next generation of leaders for Cru.  Bob says, “In 15-20 years almost all of our current Cru leaders will no longer be leading. In their places will be the leaders we are now developing. If we fail now – Cru does not fail today or tomorrow – but may fail 15-20 years from now.

Bob’s role on Cru’s Leadership Development team is to recruit outstanding leaders from business, education, government & medicine, military and non-profits to coach Cru leaders every other week via SKYPE video.

In 2012 Bob started his blog LeadingWithQuestions.com, along with other social media efforts, as a way to better connect with his target audience: Cru’s emerging leaders who are 20 and 30-something. Today, his blog provides a continued source of new tools (new questions) for all of Cru’s Coaches and Leaders and is viewed by leaders in more than 170 countries.

Bob and his wife, Sherry, are proud parents of 4 adult children and super proud grandparents of six incredible grandchildren – all of whom love to ask their Papa Bob questions!

Tweetable Quotes and Mentions

Listen to @bobtiede and get over the hump on the @FastLeaderShow Click to Tweet

In 15 to 20 years almost every one of the current leaders will no longer be leading.” -Bob Tiede Click to Tweet

“History is filled with organizations once great that failed to prepare the next leaders.” -Bob Tiede Click to Tweet 

“The only way a leader can learn to lead is to start leading.” -Bob Tiede Click to Tweet 

“Being overly helpful actually diminishes people.” -Bob Tiede Click to Tweet 

“People don’t own what they hear somebody else tell them to do.” -Bob Tiede Click to Tweet 

“Great leaders lead with questions.” -Bob Tiede Click to Tweet 

“Starting with the simplest questions is what works best.” -Bob Tiede Click to Tweet 

“We all instinctively, when we answer a question, give a safe answer.” -Bob Tiede Click to Tweet 

“Silence is a great tool in asking questions.” -Bob Tiede Click to Tweet 

“If you ask a question be quiet, let them think.” -Bob Tiede Click to Tweet 

“Sometimes the longer the silence the better the answer.” -Bob Tiede Click to Tweet 

“Empower your staff to come up with the answers that they then own.” -Bob Tiede Click to Tweet 

“If you’re going to lead with questions, you got to listen” -Bob Tiede Click to Tweet 

“If you don’t ask, the answer is always no.” -Bob Tiede Click to Tweet 

“For a team to fire on all cylinders everyone’s oars need to be in the water.” -Bob Tiede Click to Tweet 

Hump to Get Over

Bob Tiede had an Executive Vice President volunteer to fund raise for the organization he worked for. After two years he resigned. Shortly after that Bob learned the reason he resigned. It was because Bob was a benevolent teller. Listen to Bob’s story of how he learned a new way to move onward and upward faster.

Advice for others

Don’t be a teller; lead with questions.

Holding him back from being an even better leader

I need to become a better listener.

Best Leadership Advice Received

You have not because you ask not. You’ve got to ask.

Secret to Success

I love being part of a team.

Best tools that helps in business or Life

The paradigm that great leaders lead with questions.

Recommended Reading

Leading with Questions: How Leaders Find the Right Solutions by Knowing What to Ask

Great Leaders ask Questions

Contacting Bob

Blog: http://leadingwithquestions.com/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/bobtiede

Twitter: https://twitter.com/bobtiede

Resources

54 Emotional Intelligence (EQ) Competencies List: Emotional Intelligence has proven to be the right kind of intelligence to have if you want to move onward and upward faster. Get your free list today.

 

Show Transcript: 

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085: Bob Tiede: I didn’t think my heart was wrong

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Jim Rembach:    Okay Fast Leader Legion, today I’m thrilled because we have somebody that’s going to help us with one of the most important aspects of leading others and ourselves and that’s asking questions. Bob Tiede grew up on a farm in South Dakota where he earned his PhD at age 9 that’s when his Dad conferred on him the title of PHD, Post Hole Digger after he successfully dug his very first post hole all by himself. Bob grew up in a very close extended family. His dad and his three brothers and one sister all have farms within 5 miles of each other. All five families along with grandma and grandpa went to the same church and Bob and all of his cousins attended the same school from grades one through 12. Bob Tiede graduated from the University of South Dakota 1971 where both he and his wife Sherry became involved with the Christian student movement now called Cru. 

 

Upon graduation they join the staff of Cru where they have now served for 45 years. Bob serves on the leadership development team developing next generation of leaders for Cru. Bob says in 15 to 20 years almost all of our current Cru leaders will no longer be leading in their places will be the leaders we are now developing. If we fail now Cru does not fail today or tomorrow but may fail in 15 to 20 years from now. Bob’s role on Cru’s leadership development team is to recruit outstanding leaders from business, education, government, medicine, military and nonprofit to coach Cru’s leaders every other week via Skype video. In 2012 Bob started his blog leadingwithquestion.com as a way to better connect with his target audience. Cru’s emerging leaders who are the 20 to 30 somethings. Today his blog provides a continued source of new tools, new questions for all of Cru’s coaches and leaders and is viewed by leaders in more than 170 countries. Bob and his wife Sherry are proud parents of four adult children and super proud grandparents of six incredible grandchildren all of whom love to ask their Papa Bob questions. Bob Tiede are you ready to help us get over the hump?

 

Bob Tiede:    Jim, I am so ready and so excited to join the day the Fast Leader Legion. 

 

Jim Rembach:    And I’m glad to have you. I’ve given our listeners a little bit about you but can you tell us what your current passion is so that we can get to know you even better?

 

Bob Tiede:    You really mention, my mission statement is, developing the next generation of leaders for Cru. And as you shared it’s true not just of Cru but every organization 15 to 20 years almost every one of the current leaders will no longer be leading. And you know history is filled with stories of organizations, companies, churches once great thriving, vital, 15 to 20 years later they may not even exist or shell of themselves and when you dig around one of the things you find is that there was no preparation of the next generation to lead.

 

Jim Rembach:    And it’s  interesting that you say that. I’ve looked at a lot of statistics associated with what our CEO’s focusing in on. One of the things that’s really been on top of mind and on top of the list for over the past several years is this whole leadership pipeline, leadership bench strength, all those things associated with what you’re talking about. However, when you start looking at the amount of money that’s really invested by a lot of organizations and it varies by different countries as far as what to spend but it really is a lot of money but when you look at the effect or the impact on that next generation of leaders they say that the performance is so poor, why is that?

 

Bob Tiede:    Tell me more, Jim, help me understand the question just a little bit more?

 

Jim Rembach:    You’re the master of asking question, I should have known that was coming. For me when you start looking at the return on investment on leadership development it’s very low. Why is it low?

 

Bob Tiede:    Uh-mm, well I’ll hazard a guess. Jim we launched our current leadership program in 2005 we took about a year to develop it and we still don’t have a perfect program that is for sure. In fact, there’s a quote from the World War II Gen. George Patten, he says, “An imperfect plan violently executed today is far superior to perfect plan when it’s too late.” And so our commitment was we’re going to launch this thing and then we’re going to evaluate it and improve it and re-launch it and keep on going. But we came up with two components that I think make an incredible difference. And Jim I’m going to ask you a really silly question, if I didn’t know how to swim and I wanted to become a swimmer is there a book you could recommend that if I just read that book I could then say I’m a swimmer? 

 

Jim Rembach:    Of course not.

 

Bob Tiede:    Okay. How about a video series? Maybe a video that would show all the gold medal swims from the last Olympics, if I watch all of those videos could I then call myself a swimmer?

 

Jim Rembach:    I’ll even say that when I was a kid I had Mark Spitz poster on my wall with all his gold medals for many years and I still never got good at swimming. 

 

Bob Tiede:    Yes. If I want to become a swimmer what do I need to do?

 

Jim Rembach:    You got to practice.

 

Bob Tiede:    I got to get wet. I got to get in the water and I think a lot of leadership development programs, this is my guess focus on what I would say, read the book, watch the video, and those are helpful but unless you get in the water with whatever that is you can’t call yourself a leader the only way a leader can learn to lead is to start leading. And so, one of the things we do on our leadership program is action learning. We put them in groups of about five or six we usually have four of these teams and each one of them is given a challenge, a major challenge, facing our organization. In other words, it’s not just a case study, it’s not busywork these are real stuff and they’re given six months 20% of their time basically a day a week, to do all the due diligence to come up and six months later to present to the leadership of Cru their solution. 

 

We are now on our sixth iteration of this and action learning has been a game changer because it actually allows them to get in the water. And the second thing, and when you were introducing me you mentioned this, we recruited outstanding leaders from outside our organization, the coach every other week are leaders. And Jim I’ll ask you another question, you may have a coach but if you had somebody you met with every other week and they just asked you these three questions, first question: “Jim last time we were together you said that by today you wanted to make progress in A, B and C, tell me how that’s gone? Now mind you they didn’t tell you what you needed to do last time you said here’s what I wanted to do. Second question: Can we confirm when we’re meeting again? It may be same time, same place, two weeks from today but you asked to confirm. Third question: Jim, by then what further progress do you want to make? Mind you, I’m taking notes because that would be my first question two weeks from now. Those two things have been game changers in developing leaders. Now do we have it perfect now? No. But do we feel really good about the investment were making that it’s actually making a difference? Absolutely.

 

Jim Rembach:    Yeah, thanks for sharing that. As I was thinking about what you were saying I started thinking about the distinction between what is training, what is mentoring and what is coaching. Those three questions are more coach based because you’re not putting in the answers all you’re doing is working with what’s already inside and that’s the key distinction I think that we really have to make these days with a lot of folks. Because they essentially want to tell people what they’re supposed to be doing and there’s no thinking that’s involve and so we’re not depositing in them were essentially just giving them all the answers and therefore they don’t have to come up within themselves and I think that is something that stifles a lot of growth and leadership opportunity in a lot of folks. So, when you start talking about—I think you talked about having a particular addiction about being a teller, right? 

 

Bob Tiede:    Jim, I’m a charter member of TA. Now most people don’t know what TA is, they’re familiar with AA for example, I don’t mean out of personal experience but they’ve heard of Alcoholics Anonymous—A.A.  T.A. stands for Tellers Anonymous. And we go to our meetings and I stand up and I said my name is Bob I’m a Teller and they say, welcome Bob. The truth is many, many years of my leadership I was what you would call a benevolent dictator. I was overly helpful. I was a micro director, a micro-teller. If you ask me Bob what time is it? I not only told you what time I told you how watches are made. And, oh! Jim, can I share really painful story?

 

Jim Rembach:    You sure can. 

 

Bob Tiede:    About 20 years ago, I was privileged and I was so excited I had an incredible leader volunteer at no cost to join our development team, our fundraising team. He had recently retired as one of the top five leaders at JC Penney’s, fabulous company he was the international executive VP. Two years later he resigned and a bit after that I discovered the reason he resigned. He said in his entire career he had never served under someone who so told him step-by-step what he needed to do. And I thought I was being helpful, but it was like, I was saying, “Here, you know, ABCD. Here’s another word picture, I’m not an artist and so if I see something that is—draw this picture by connect the dots, go from 1 to 2, 2 to 3, 3 to 4 that’s kind of fun, but if you’re an artist and you work in an art studio and they insisted that you draw all your pictures that way and somebody else designed them you wouldn’t stay there very long because where is the chance to flourish yourself? Well, at that point I really didn’t understand, I really didn’t. It was a much later that I understood that being overly helpful, because again I even look back now and said, I don’t think my heart was wrong I was just stupid. But being overly helpful actually diminishes people, it doesn’t let them grow, it doesn’t let them flourish and they don’t own what they hear somebody else tell them to do. 

 

And so, it was much later, in fact I’d actually moved in to this role and in 2006, I came across a book, browsing a bookstore, I came across a book called Leading with Question by Dr. Michael Marquardt. As I browse that book in the bookstore, I only read a few pages, and said this one’s going home with me and I took it home and it was a page turner and reading that book forever changed my leadership. Because as I read that book I had the “aha” and I shared that awful experience, imagine losing a talent like that because you are being overly helpful, but I understood what I done wrong and saw this new paradigm, the great leaders lead with questions. You know, in the book there was a quote, there’s many quotes, but I love this quote from Dr. Peter Drucker: “The leader of the past may have been a person who knew how to tell but certainly the leader of the future will be a person who knows how to ask.” 

 

At any rate as I grab that new paradigm in my leadership development role I began to teach out of that book, do presentations put them together they were so well received. One example, I had been with the global operations team of Cru and I was there for another meeting but the next morning kind of a check-in time, I was not going to speak that morning I’d spoken earlier, but during the check-in time one of the colleagues on that team a wife and mother, not my wife but on the team, she’s volunteered there she said, Oh! I’ve got to thank Bob. She said, Last night I think I had the best conversation with my son that I’ve ever had.” Her son was two years out of the University, was are ready succeeding as a young professional, but what she said is, you know every time we get on the phone my son will mentioned some topic and I will then tell him what he needs to do. She said, Last night when we got on the phone he mentioned the topic and I said, tell me more about that? And then he did. And I said, what do you think you ought to do? And he did share that all she did was ask basic questions and she said I think it was the finest conversation I’ve ever had. Thank you so much Bob. Well I turn around and said, let us thank Michael Marquardt for writing the book. 

 

Jim Rembach:    Thanks for sharing that. You’ve got me to start thinking about a couple of instances with certain individuals that I’ve had to where I’ve tried, I’ve attempted to ask the questions so that they can answer them for themselves.  However, it’s almost a situation to where two things. One was a choice, they chose to just—no, just give me the answer I need to hurry I need to go. And the other is, there was an older person that I think they had become so conditioned and brainwashed to have answers be given to them that when I started asking those questions they seem like a lost soul. So how do you reprogram or program somebody to actually answer questions that are given to them?

 

Bob Tiede:    That’s a great question I want to make kind of a comment. Someone have seen my research that the average four-year-old asked over 200 questions a day. And then we send them to school and in most again well-meaning teachers now it’s a five-year-old or six-year-old is asking a lot of questions and the teacher at some point says, Johnny it’s my job to ask questions it’s your job to answer them. And over time they get reprogram. I’m told that the average college graduate only ask 20 questions a day. And so we really do have this—what’s happening in the education system is don’t ask questions give answers and so reprogramming that can be difficult. What I find is starting with the simplest questions is what works best. For example, in my book—Great Leaders Ask Questions, which by the way have a free e-book on my blog, but in that book I share that I can teach anyone to lead with questions in 30 seconds. Can I try that with you Jim?

 

Jim Rembach:    Let’s do it. 

 

Bob Tiede:    Okay. I want you to memorize my four favorite questions I’m going to share them with you and we’ll see if 30 seconds later you can restate them back to me. Here’s the first question: What you think? And of course in the situation you would add about whatever’s on the table. What do you thinks the best way forward with his client? What you think we could do about this? So, it’d related. But first question, what you think? The second one is what else? The third one is what else? The fourth one is, what else? Now Jim, do you have this memorized?

 

Jim Rembach:    I think I do. 

 

Jim Rembach:    Let’s hear them. 

 

Bob Tiede:    I just remember the, what else, what else, what else?  Three times and I know when things are said three times we remember them best. What was the first one again? 

 

Jim Rembach:    The first one is, what do you think? 

 

Bob Tiede:    What do you think?

 

Bob Tiede:    And then, what else, what else, what else. Now may sound funny but here’s what I’ve discovered is that we all kind of instinctively when we answer a question give a safe answer we’re protective of ourselves it’s not a conscious thing it’s a subconscious. And if I say Jim, what you think about? And you give me an answer and I saw it Jim that’s stupid anyone knows that, we’ll you’re glad you didn’t say anything else. But if I say, wow! Jim tell me more, what else? And you give another answer. And I said Jim take a notes. Keep talking, what else. What I discovered is that you get to the gold nugget on about the third or fourth what else because they’re feeling really safe it’s like wow the guy asking must be really smart they keep asking me, they keep telling him more. But by is starting that way, you don’t make a big deal out of starting to lead with questions, you don’t ask him, and again you’re never trying to ask him I got you question your you’re not the 60 minutes investigator, and then you have listen and you appreciate what’s being said. 

 

Another key that I find and I shared in my book is silenced is a great tool in asking questions. Many times we’ll say, Jim what do you think about? And they’re not immediately answering. And so we say, well you know, and we ask it again or we stack another question because were uncomfortable with the silence.  But if we if you ask a question be quiet let them think they will answer and sometimes the longer the silence the better the answer. Jim that’s not a perfect solution you can’t make somebody talk that doesn’t want to but if you start simple give him time, appreciate what they say, you’ll begin to make progress I think with almost anyone.

 

Jim Rembach:    Thanks for sharing that.  There’s a couple of things that I pulled out as you’re talking and one is be authentic with your listening, don’t judge, I think that’s important because you want to be able to build that trust, be patient. You’ve got to weight them out I guess if you want the answers, you have to weight them out. So I know you have a lot of things going on. I know you’ve been with Cru for—oh my goodness, having a 45 year career with one organization is just unheard of these days. But you got the grandkids, you’ve got a lot of things going on, so tell me Bob when you think about your goals, what else?

 

Bob Tiede:    Jim it’s interesting as I share my mission really is developing the next generation of leaders for Cru. When I look at those six grandkids sometimes Jim when I’m doing a presentation I would say, and I don’t know the next slide coming up but I’ll say, we’ve identified what we think are the six highest potential future leaders, would you like to see who we’ve identified? And of course, the audience ask for the next slides, my grandkids. And so, we are focused on developing them of course age-appropriate. But Jim, another thing that has become a sweet spot you mentioned that I started this blog leadingwithquestions.com I did it just as a better way to connect with the young emerging leaders in our organization. Also to provide a resource to the coaches that we’d recruited. And oh, Jim I make a funny comment I have no idea how 747 can get in the air but that doesn’t stop me from flying. And this thing called the Internet I still have no idea how it actually works but it doesn’t stop me from using it. And so you launch this blog it gets out there and I’m just blown away that I’m being followed now by leaders from 170 nations.

 

And so another mission statement I have is helping leaders increase their leadership effectiveness times ten and I really believe it is possible to increase times ten from moving from the paradigm of leading by telling, like I was the benevolent dictator, to leading with questions where we empower our staff to come up with the answers that they then own and are going to be much more motivated to execute on plus we get the best thinking of everyone. Another kind of silly story or question I ask is,  Jim if you are about with all your staff and they all had oars and are wanting to get across the lake how many of them would you like to have row with you?

 

Jim Rembach:    Every single of them. 

 

Bob Tiede:    Yeah.  So that I’ve never had a leader say otherwise Jim. But I then asked Jim, so why would any of us want to, with our staff, take them on into the future and we’re the only one that has an oar in the water? Why aren’t we asking them? What did they think? How would they approach this? And in that way you get the best thinking, the brain power of everyone on your team.

 

Jim Rembach:    We wish you the very best in all of your, what else is Bob? Now before we move let’s get a quick word from our sponsor. 

 

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Jim Rembach:    Alright, here we go Fast Leader Legion it’s time for the Hump Day Hoedown. Okay Bob, the Hump Day Hoedown is the part of our show where you give us good insights fast. So, I’m going to ask you several questions and your job is to give us robust yet rapid responses that are going to help us move onward and upward faster.  Bob Tiede—

 

Bob Tiede:    I’m ready to go. 

 

Jim Rembach:    Alright you’re ready to hoedown. So, what do you think is holding you back from being even better leader today? 

 

Bob Tiede:    It’s simple. I need to become a better listener. You know there’s a quote by David Augsburger said that: “Being heard is so close to being loved that for the average person they are almost indistinguishable.” If you’re going to lead with questions you got to listen and I have to become a better listener.

 

Jim Rembach:    What is the best leadership advice you ever received?

 

Bob Tiede:    Jim, I’m going to say that it’s from the brother Jesus James who shares in his New Testament book he shares this: You have not because you ask not. If you don’t ask the answers always no or no input, no insight, thoughts or wisdom from others, so you got to ask. 

 

Jim Rembach:    What is one of your secrets that you believe contributes to your success?

 

Bob Tiede:    Here’s another quote, I don’t know who to attribute it to but the quote says, “None of us is as good as all of us.” I love being part of a team, the scripture says that one chases a thousand but two will chase ten thousand. And for a team to fire on all cylinders everyone oarer’s has to be on the water. And the only way that can happen is where that team culture is one of leading with questions. 

 

Jim Rembach:    What do you feel is one of your best tools that helps you lead in business or life? 

 

Bob Tiede:    Jim I’m going to sound like a broken record but I really believe it’s the paradigm that great leaders lead with questions. 

 

Jim Rembach:    What would be one book, and it could be from any genre, that you’d recommend to our listeners?

 

Bob Tiede:    Jim, I’d like to recommend the book by Dr. Michael Marquardt that forever changed my paradigm and his book is called, “Leading with Question”, it’s now in its second edition. It’s an outstanding book.

 

Jim Rembach:    Okay. Fast Leader listeners you can find links to that and other bonus information including Bob’s e-book by going to fastleader.net/Bob Tiede. Okay Bob, this is my last Hump Day Hoedown question: Imagine you were given the opportunity to go back to the age 25. And you’ve been given the opportunity to take the knowledge and skill that you have now back with you. But you can’t take everything back you can only choose one. So, what skill or piece of knowledge would you take back with you and why?

 

Bob Tiede:    Jim that’s easy. I would take back the paradigm that great leaders ask questions. 

 

Jim Rembach:    Okay, Bob it was an honor to spend time with you today, can you please share with the fast leader listeners how they can connect with?

 

Bob Tiede:    Oh, Jim, it’s been great to be with you. And Fast Leader listeners you can connect with me on my blog, leadingwithquestions.com again leadingwithquestions.com.

 

Jim Rembach:    Bob Tiede, thank you for sharing you knowledge and wisdom the Fast Leader Legion honors you and thanks you for helping us get over the hump. Woot! Woot! 

 

Thank you for joining me on the Fast Leader show today. For recaps, links from every show, special offers and access to download and subscribe, if you haven’t already, head on over the fastleader.net so we can help you move onward and upward faster.

 

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